Leaving the West and embracing a new life as a digital nomad in Southeast Asia was the best decision I ever made. The food is cheap, the weather is awesome and I have an amazing girlfriend. But I have to warn you. I love Asia and I love Asian women. But there are some things you need to know before you do something you will regret later. Dating Asian women is addictive When I think about what dating Asian women is really like, there are dozens of words that pop into my head.
Effortless, fun, playful, exciting…these are all words that describe the feeling. And this feeling is addictive.
This addiction is fun, but it can get dangerous. Imagine you are working on a business and all you think about is to join a Filipina dating site and to chat with hundreds of girls. Chatting with beautiful Filipinas is ten times more fun than working on a business. However, think about the long-term consequences of this attitude. You might have two girls in your bed but no money in the bank. Your ego is your greatest enemy Dating Asian women is fuel for your ego.
But it is dangerous. What do you think happens when you meet an awesome girl who is girlfriend material? You want to be with her, but your ego tells you that you can have so many other girls. This is the moment when you have to decide if you want to listen to your ego or to your heart.
I fight this battle every day. Not every smile is real Asian women love Western men. But some girls you meet have an agenda. Yes, they love the way you look and talk, but they also love the shape of your credit card. When I first came to Asia, I was amazed at how friendly everyone was.
Back in my home country, people usually smile on Christmas Eve and on their birthday. In Asia, however, people smile at you all day long. The fact that everyone, especially beautiful women, are constantly smiling at you can make you blind to the intention behind their smiles. Some of the girls who smile want to date you. I know that the smile of my girlfriend is real. I know it because she has never been in a go-go bar, let alone worked in one. The best advice I can give you is to stay away from bar girls.
What happens when you ignore this advice? Fall for the wrong girl and you will fall While I lived in the Philippines, I got to know many expats.
Most of them are in relationships with Filipina women. Some of them are married. They are all happy because they chose the right girl. And they all know stories of guys who chose the wrong girl. A lot can happen when you choose the wrong girl. You are in love and people in love tend to act a little bit illogical. You might send money to her because she tells you that her grandmother is sick. Of course, this can happen in every Asian country. I dated many beautiful Asian women and I never got scammed.
There are millions of beautiful Asian girls who want you and not your money. I found the perfect girl in Asia and I currently live with her. I love her and living with her is an amazing experience. I left my safe and secure home country for a life of uncertainty. Obviously, this lifestyle is not for everyone. But if you date Asian women, you might not have a choice. Once you have realized that women can be feminine, dating can be fun, and relationships can be fulfilling, you can never go back to dating in the West.
I still remember how I felt when I came back after my first one-month trip to Asia. Now I live in Asia. You can do the same.