December 14th Classic: In this case, I am the 20 year old guy June with a 16 year old girlfriend August I've read a lot and done some investigation, and I know the relationship with the girl I'm seeing is questionable and frowned upon.
But I assure you, not every guy my age is lusting after sex. I just happened to run into her via some friends and found out about her age later, and I was okay with it because I liked her very much She's a shy, quiet girl who doesn't talks much with guys and reads a damn lot.
But I just had a pretty tough conversations with my parents about this, and I'm starting having doubts as well. In the end, they accepted it since they like her, though. I've been through two serieus relationships one two years, other one and a half years and I'm her first boyfriend, even one of the first guys she ever talked to. They think we're on two totally different levels, and in some ways they are right.
Yeah, she can be more mature than me at times, but it still is noticable I'm actually dating a 16 year old girl.
I'm also starting to think we don't want the same from a relationship. I'm even wondering if she likes me at all, at times. She just isn't opening up to me, maybe because she's scared of me she mentioned because I'm a lot older it's extra hard for her but that also hurts my side, since you don't want to hear from your partner she's scared of being with you at times. She also occasionly avoids me or doesn't do much effort to be with me.
Again, what I mean here are no sexual intentions, just being with her. Then we come back to the age gap. She's in the prime of her youth, where she will change a lot and experience tons of new things. I'm fearing it will change too much, and she'll eventually leave me like my ex did, when she experienced the outgoing life, she wanted to be free. I don't want to be a snack, or be with her all for nothing because it might wind up being the same as her.
I think that's most of the info I can give.. Next time I'll see her I'm going to have a talk with her about this.. That will be somewhere next week, and I'd like to hear some honest opinions from you so I can take that in consideration Other info: We're at the same school, same years different education I'm doing a higher study at this school, hence the age difference..
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