Elaine So I recently broke up with my boyfriend Although I broke up with him I still have feelings for him. So yesterday I find out they have been flirting and that made me mad. And a couple hours after that I find out she asked him out. I was really jealous and I got mad. What do I do? Gabrielle brown My best friend asked out my ex before we broke up because she new we were having some issues mostly due to distance. I was the one who introduced them. Ended up having to chose between handling myself or loosing the two people I cared the most about I had been friends with her for two years and been dating him for 3 I chose to try to move on from him and keep my friendships with them, it was worth being able to stay in contact with them but still really sucks from time to time.
Sarah First I needed vent…so thank you for sharing and the accurate memes I dated this guy my first year of college and he was my first…everything. It hurt so bad to leave. I still had to see him twice a week because we voulnteered at the same place. I wanted to get over him but obviously some days where harder than others.
This is where my bff stepped in. She lived like 5 min. I poured my hurting heart out to her and she was an amazing bf. I loved her like a sister. Fastward a couple months, my ex started inviting me and my friend over for game nights.
I was so excited that he wanted to be friends with me and part of me still was hoping that mabye things could be different I felt safe cause my bff would come with me and there was always a group. After a bit she got a little distant but I thought it was because she was busy…a couple months pass and my ex asks to talk to me.
I am freaking out because I think I did something wrong. I was hurt, hurt that my bff would have my ex tell me this, and not trust that I loved her enough to understand if she had told me sooner. I went home and cried myself to sleep. The next morning I decided I wanted to be happy for them. I just asked that she promised to keep room for me in her life. Needless to say she left. She would barley contact me and when she did it was to tell me things that he would get for her, like to the 21 pilots concert which I happen to be obsessed with and then she randomly dropped out of volunteering, without saying a word.
She was gone so quick. About a month later she started working with me and was pretending like everything was normal. I layed it all out everything I felt about what had happened but kept reiterating that I loved her no matter what. Just went back to work. I had to quite soon after that because it was to painful. When I think I have let go it sneeks up on me.
I still love her, there where always be a place in my heart for her. But sometimes I want her to lay in bed at night and feel all the pain. Fully recognize the betrayal, embarresment and hurt she put me through. Anyways thanks for this…thanks foe letting me have a voice truthserumX It is a blessing in disguise. I hate them both for doing this to me.
She had the audacity to pick him up on Saturday to take him away for the night! All I ever talked about was him to my best friend. Next thing you know she told me that she was going to make it all right again. I was actually going through a lot. She knew that but she still argued with me about it. She had texted my ex about me.
He told her that he did not like me and that I should move on like he did. She started talking to him more. She told me that it was only going to be about what happened but she went off topic and she started to flirt with him. And she never realized anything. All she did was talk about herself. It sucks because I had such high hopes. I thought my ex liked me. He always stares at me and he still does. But she realized she liked my crush.
I feel absolutely betrayed because it sucks. Daneli Ramirez What do I do , my best friend is with my ex boyfriend. I was only with him for three weeks but we were acting like a couple for four months.
I broke up with him because he was awkward and I told my best friend everything about him , she said it was a good thing that we broke up because he looked like a muppet and was odd. GiftedSoul I have a dilemma and I would desperately need someone to assist me. I have been best friends with a girl who i would call Mary, for about a year. However, she started to move distant with me.
One day she told me her boyfriend who i would call James and he broke up about a some months ago and she still loved him and wanted him. After that she continued moving distant with me.
About a few months after i started dating her ex-boyfriend best friend who i would call John. How painful was it for me. How does Mary fit in the picture? Remember i said her ex-boyfriend is the best friend of my ex boyfriend. Well i grew feelings for James, her ex. I no longer cared about John but grew immense feelings for James. James told me also that he liked me before and that he told Mary while they were dating that he did.
So we started dating and eventually i told her. She was ok with it as first but seeing us together continually, she avoided us completely. I lost my best friend whom i loved dearly but i gained someone great.
Now, this not only pains me to hear because he was once my boyfriend and I cared about him, but because plot twist I have been secretly in love with her since our freshman year.
When Chad and I broke up, I secretly prayed that if he were to move on and start dating another girl, it would be anyone but Laurie, and now, as if by some cruel and tragic irony, she begins to catch feelings for him. Rosa He is a jerk and not worth your time. No one forgets that they are dating. That is a lame excuse right there Grace. Set your standard higher sweet Grace.
You are much better and deserve more than a pity jerk. You will learn with time, that not everyone that smiles and says nice things is necessarily nice, unfortunately.
Get yourself busy with some new activity, new book, and you will see, before you know it, you will feel much better.
But never settle for less than what you deserve. He is the jerk that should feel bad, not you. But she like him before and I know she still does. Besides it was a text relationship. And I miss talking to him like I use to. She went behind my back and started dating him without asking me.
I want to move on to high school and never hear her annoying ass voice again. I still like him and he hurts me so much.