Leave a comment Source: Many of their reasons were purely based on superficial factors, which bothered me. It is one thing to date someone because you like them as a person and could care less about their skin color which is perfectly fine. It is another thing to purposely seek a particular race for frivolous reasoning. I know that this topic has been discussed over and over but I do not think that it has ever been looked at via a more superficial eye. Note this is an assessment that I have had over the years.
It seems to be more than preference for some men. It is deeper than just who they are attracted to. For some men, their reasoning is depth-less and completely shallow. Note that this does not apply to all Black men who date White women. Then there are those who have these reasons: Pretty Babies Some people are under the illusion that mixed babies are prettier than Black babies. They may also feel that bi-racial children have better opportunities or are treated better by society as a whole. There is Nothing like a good haired high yellow baby!
Ego Stroke For some Black men, there is nothing like having a White woman on their arms. It makes them feel warm inside. A White woman on their arms makes them feel as if they have accomplished something in life. It confirms their attractiveness. Sometimes it also impresses their friends which is an added bonus. The media also assists in creating the illusion that White women are the iconic image of beauty.
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