William 0 Comments Be a leader. Lead her to fun. As a man you need to lead them to fun, open them up. You have to know what you want in life. They find that very attractive. Hell, it made me realize I should make therapy my profession.
You mean what we mean. It helps if you dress well. Touch slowly, not too long, and in appropriate places. Especially make sure to touch or hold her hands. It lowers your market value. Take her to places. Go cycling along the river, go paint Easter eggs, go for a mud bath. Bake a cake together. Take the cheapest flight to an exotic destination together over the weekend. Except as a joke perhaps. Bash her a little.
Joke around and tease her. So many women try so very, very hard to be nice all the fucking time, that they enjoy it when you fantasize about how she can be evil too. Women have a lot of pent-up anger that they never act upon, so let her explore her dark side in your conversations. It will relax her. They like attention, but they hate being idealized.
Be nice to people around her. But most women are simply not bitches. The longer nothing happens, the more certain it becomes that nothing will happen. You should be kissing after six to maximum twelve hours of interacting. Be happy on your own. Make sure you have everything in your life to feel fulfilled, regardless of how one woman responds to you.
Height is just one factor that translates as protection, high social standing to a woman. Look up the girlfriend of the cool dude that plays Tyrion on Game of Thrones… Be creative in your communication. Be vibrant, be engaging. This is also why flowers are still a very good gift to give to women. Learn to control your energy and the energy of the interaction. One moment she wants to dance like crazy, and the next moment she wants to go home, kick off her shoes and eat ice cream in bed while watching an episode of Friends.
You need to be able to deal with that. A mistake would be to try and keep her in the same mood. This seems obvious, but what you can easily blurt out when talking to your mates, could very well shock the living day lights out of her. In the same category: If the two of you are both seeing your connection as purely about sex, then yes, you will talk a lot about sex and swap a lot of sex stories. A women will talk in general terms about what she thinks men are like or what relationships are like.
Taking us to the next point. Women are very indirect in their communication. The closest a woman will venture is more something like: Learn to handle her indirectness and learn her language.
They start wanting to compete with you, try making a point of being smarter than you, might say things that sound insulting. You just pretend to be worth more than she is. Especially very beautiful women react to this, because they are used to being adored by all guys they meet. You can say some things that are, outside of her, comfort zone. Be aware of her comfort. Show her you are sexually aroused by her.
Randomly talking about everything that turns you on in general will put her off. If she starts criticizing you smile it off. Remember what she tells you.
During a first date nothing she tells you is entirely random. Women freely give you the manual of how they want to be treated.
Walks are actually one of the best dating activities. You are not forced to stare at each other across a table, which can be more relaxing.
Conversation while walking somehow tend to be more free flowing and easy. You can still end the date in a restaurant. Plus, outdoors smells more like possibility and adventure than indoors. You can also bring some food and a bottle of wine and a blanket along if the mood arises to get more comfortable. In winter you have a reason to go for mulled wine at some Christmas market, those are everywhere these days.
As is the case with success in many fields: Have fun flirting with her, dating her, talking to her. And most of all growth. Push her to grow. This could be the ultimate key.
Women fall in love with men they consider to be men who can push them to the next level in their level. Chemistry killer number one. Do not ever use logical arguments to try and convince her to be with you. Make her FEEL excitement, do not tell her why she should be feeling excited… This is a typical guy mistake. Introduce her to new things. Speak and act with confidence, but not arrogance. All these laws will have more impact if you look sexy. There are plenty of simple things you can do to look sexier.
Have your eyebrows trimmed. If you really like her ask her out more than once. If you leave enough time between asking and stay respectful and polite, you can keep asking her out. Stay cheerful about it. Women are the sexual selectors. Women rate 85 percent of men on dating sites as below average in attraction. This means that only a fraction of men appeals to women. In my student days I was perceived as having above average social status and in that period women regularly asked me out on dates.
I had no idea at the time what exactly was causing this. Status makes women show initiative. It can of course be very labor intensive to achieve that status. The short cut is to act high status without actually having it. Women are attracted by effort, by how determined you are to become a better version of you and how much positive impact you want to make on others Build the romance gradually.
Romance is more appreciated later on in the relationship. If you get physical early on, it boosts her attraction to you. If nothing happens, the opposite happens. If nothing happens early on she will look for reasons as to why you are not the right guy for her.
Women see a relationship as something that just happens naturally, fast, something that overcomes them. Why women always say: They also hate the idea that you could be doing anything deliberately to seduce them. For women seduction needs to magically happen, tactics are not alllowed. The trouble with this is that women find certain behavior attractive and some behavior repulsive or at least attraction killing. Plus, men are highly hierarchically attuned and most men display behavior that either shows how lowly they feel very low self confidence or tries to mask their lowly status arrogance.