No matter how many times we tell ourselves that saying mushy things is cheesy and tacky, the truth is that we all love to hear them, read them, and say them. So, how are you going to make your sweetheart feel like the luckiest person in the world today?
What are you going to say to make them believe beyond a doubt, that they're the only person you ever want to be with? LoveBondings Staff Last Updated: Dec 10, Falling in love happens as quickly as falling asleep. In a jiffy, your world goes from aware and alert to dreamy and wandering. Being in a relationship with someone you love is easy. It's keeping the romance alive that gets tougher and tougher.
And though actions do speak louder than words, sometimes, it becomes more important to SAY the right thing. Now THAT leaves a lot of us befuddled, doesn't it? Finding the right words to convey exactly what you want to, in a manner that makes your sweetheart fall in love with you all over again may not be everyone's forte. Here are some examples that will show you exactly how it's done. I don't want anyone else to see you vulnerable.
I don't want to smile, but I do involuntarily. It's like nothing in this world matters more than that one look. Not my only sun. But my sun a thousand times over. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will. You are the best part of that best thing. I just have to remind myself of all the times when you let go. Sometimes I bug you, sometimes you annoy me.
I crib, nag, demand. You and your monosyllabic replies! But I'd feel weird if these things did not happen. They define the bond that we share. You're the love of my life! Your laugh makes me smile.
Every tantrum and every smile; every mischief and every tear; every kiss and every touch; every hope and every fear. Nobody gets me the way you do. I don't care what people think or say, as long as I'm with you! Now you get to take it all! I feel mushy inside.
I want to cry and laugh at the same time. I just realized, these are the moments I spend thinking about you. I am always with you. When I close my eyes, I can feel your presence.
I don't know where 'I' ends and 'you' begins, for you are with me every moment. Thank you for everything. But I'd really rather have that scar. Because I know that without the scar, I'd be incomplete, unfinished. I love you because you laugh at my shenanigans. I love you because you GET me. I love you because you think I'm pretty even when I'm sick. I love you because you hold my hand and walk on the traffic-side when wometimes be as annoying as having a scar that just won't go away.
I know that you can have things on your mind that I cannot help with. I know that sometimes, you'd rather be away from me than with me. But most important of all, I know that when you need someone, it's me. I know that it's me you'll look for when you're afraid. I know it's me you'll call when you need to just talk. I know it's me you'll come to when you need a hug and a kiss. And just knowing all this makes me love you, like I've never loved before. You've been spoiling me silly since forever!
The little things you do that make me feel like a princess. The way you leave me a goodnight message even when you know I'm already asleep, the way you guide me while crossing the street, how you initially pretend to ignore but later recite my favorite movie dialogs to cheer me up, the way you alter your plans to come see me 'cuz you were missing me! See, if you split a biscuit into half, the line along which it breaks has a certain pattern.
You can break a hundred other biscuits and try to make a piece fit the first half. But it will never fit. There is only one other half in the whole wide world which will fit it perfectly - the one that it was separated from in the first place. Instead, let's get giddy on a roller coaster; let's pass out together after drinking all night; let's get sick together sampling bad street food; let's watch a trashy comedy together.
Who has the time for cheesy candlelight dinners when there's so much fun to be had, so much laughter to be shared; so much life to be lived! Before you meet them you think that you're a good person. You are grown up and adult. That you have let go of the negativity in your life. But then you meet them and you realize that they see through all your nonsense and point it out to you. They break your misplaced ego and build you up again. They make you want to be better by how sheerly amazing they are.
By being with them, your bar is raised impossibly high. You will never be the same again. Because you've met your game-changer. YOU, are my game-changer. On a parting note, here's one of the best quotes, by Bob Marley, that captures the true essence of what love is all about. Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.
You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.
There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.
Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it's like being young again. Colors seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day's work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there's no need for continuous conversation, but you find you're quite content in just having them nearby.
Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.
You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there's a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that's so real it scares you.
You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soulmate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile.
Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.