June 1, at 3: No I have not had closure because I have no idea what is going on with them. I just hope shes making his life miserable because he made my life miserable.
I have picture proof too I threatened to send her but never did. PeggySue June 1, at I want to make him miserable.
I have texts, pictures and voice mail messages of course. She has a temper and is spiteful; he never complained to me about her, but after 2 years of different stories and hearing something she said or did in reaction to him or others, I have a pretty good picture of how she is. Of course he lied and said the garage.
He hates confrontation so he just does whatever she says to avoid any conflict. How pathetic is that? I was in therapy for this btw. Thank you for responding to me Susan. I also know deep down the right thing is to just keep quiet and focus on my life. Joanne June 1, at 3: He rarely mentioned her and only one time alluded to her being a pain.
I feel bad for not feeling bad. Almost two weeks no contact. I remind myself I deserve a whole man who is honest. Not half a lying man.
Susan June 2, at These guys are all bs artists. He is a good one too. Susan I went to high school with mine and we also had a strong friendship. Susan If you told her he would probably hate you. Now mine wont talk to me.
It needs to end for good. It sux they are such good liars. Susan June 2, at 6: He would never commit and would never say if he would divorce or not. I knew that meant no divorce. So I started realizing I was being used. I started threatening to tell her and that made things worse. So I finally just did it. And he never texted me again. He called a few times to argue with me over the phone because I was emailing her. That was our last trip together. I am much better off and have realized I was just a sex toy for him.
So, it is for the best. His wife has never acknowleged me, never responded to ANY of my messages. But he has emailed me and told me she was threatening to sue me, etc. When I threatened to send pics of him that he had sent to me he threatened again. This has been my life for the past year.
I have finally given up and stopped emailing him and I have not heard from him in 6 days. I am sure he will cheat again. I was the same way. I stalked her on Facebook and Twitter.
I was obsessed with her and wanted to talk to her. I sent many emails and messages until she blocked me on Facebook and Twitter. She never answered one message. But would speak through him. So I left her alone. Then me and him started somewhat emailing again. Only I would email and he would go for days to answer me and it would be like one sentence. I was learning that he was just appeasing me and confronted him. I hope his life is miserable now because he ruined my life for the past year.
I am just now getting over it and it is hard. He told me he loved me, we texted every day and he called me almost every day for 16 months. And it ended ugly because I told her. Susan June 2, at 7: My MM lives in another state so I was not worried about her coming knocking on my door.
But, if what you say is true and she is spiteful, etc. Or try to get a restraining order on you claim you are harassing them. She could mess your world up for sure if she wanted to and make you very uncomfortable.
Or maybe she would just make his life hell. But then he might turn on you mine did — he turned on me and took her side. You never know with these men. They make us think they really love us but they are committed to their families and when the rubber hits the road most of the time they will choose their family and not us.
PeggySue June 4, at 8: I am so happy to have found this page where women have actually ended things and want to move on. First, this is over for me. I asked him if he had ever considered leaving to be with me and he said no. I either have to do it myself or find someone else which is not easy. He made me miserable — I cried all the time during this affair especially the first year. I really believed even though he never said it that he was unhappy enough to leave.
For us it was definitely that. I guess as I said, my big worry is what she or even he might do to me to retaliate.
Still I wonder, is it possible for them to make me more miserable than she will make him?? Shirley June 4, at He knows, I could expose him at any time! It had been almost 2 years, since the breakup. We are Not Alone! We will be Much better empowered women!