You love the chase, too. A law of the universe. That which has true value, requires work. A man wants to chase. That it was his unique blend of charm and charisma. So chasing is important. Now, how do you get the guy to do that? I could give you tricks to spark his interest. I could show you how to passively fake disinterest. And it will work. Instead, this is how to do it for real. Build a high-quality, exciting life. You can ignore everything else I write in this article if you get this right.
Men chase and commit to women whose world they want to become a part of. The more passionate you are, the more exciting your world, and the more you are embracing the wonderful thing that is life, the more you can throw the dating textbooks out the window.
Men will chase you, without you ever doing anything. Almost every piece of good dating advice comes back to personal growth — and this one is the jewel in the crown. Any woman can generate physical attraction and have a man want to sleep with her. She works on herself and builds a life she loves, rather than focusing on how she looks or how men perceive her.
In doing so, she radiates the confidence of a woman who knows any man would be lucky to join her as a boyfriend. If you want to consistently have high-quality men chasing you — push your comfort zone, confront your fears, and build the high-quality life you dream of.
A lot of single women are in a hurry not to be single. Being single is the most empowering phase of your life. You have time to build your dreams. But most importantly — you can still choose your Mr. Right — the biggest decision you will ever make, period. Women in a hurry to stop being single push for commitment — sometimes in just a couple of dates — with the first decent guy they find themselves attracted to.
That, which has true value, takes work. Raise your standards for love. Emotional maturity means knowing when your emotions are leading you astray. We barely know them in five. Contrary to popular belief, men love being in relationships.
They love the companionship. They love having an empathetic supporter after a bad day. But most people relate it to sex. It has nothing to do with sex. These are the real benefits of being in a relationship. And men know it. Judge him only on his actions towards you.
Many women chase men who have done absolutely nothing to earn it. General attractiveness is a good start. Worthy of a flirt — certainly. If you want high-quality men to chase you, judge them relative to their actions towards you. They judge his attractiveness irrespective of his effort. If you want a high-quality man to chase, your attraction to him should be directly proportional to his effort towards you, no matter how tall, dark, handsome or wealthy he is.
Be willing to walk if he drops the ball. Remember that high-quality, exciting life you built? When you put your standards and your self-respect first, something magical happens. Men can sense this stuff. It sounds easier than it is.
Could you do it? Build a life you love. Ultimately, men chase quality women, who set themselves apart in every aspect of their lives. Meet the students of Five Points High School. Catch Five Points, a new series only on Facebook Watch.