Currently my businesses are growing very quickly, and I have the opportunity to re-locate or to stay in this area. I have also saved quite a bit of money.. I have visited San Diego in the past and absolutely loved it. I love the lifestyle, weather and the quality of life seems to be so much better than here.
I spend most of my time working, or doing creative hobbies like painting, photography or drawing, and I enjoy yoga, swimming and running. I also love the outdoors and I love to be outside, especially the mountains and the beach. I never go to clubs and I rarely ever go to bars. I don't smoke, I only drink lightly socially, I don't smoke weed or do drugs, I have social skills, I have ambitions in life.
I don't have kids. I don't have an ex lurking in the background or a fwb. Honestly, I can say I have no physical, emotional or mental baggage, my only problem is that I am introverted and don't go out much, or meet new people. I tried online dating in the NYC area and it was awful for me. Most of the guys here want a non-committed relationship with someone who is ok with being used like an unpaid prostitute, basically a no strings attached type relationship.
Enough women do this here that the guys have gotten used to it and assume all women will do it. I just want a normal guy who is attractive to me, is stable, has morals, values his family, has some ambition in life, is compatible with me, makes me laugh, is honest and doesn't do drugs or have issues with an ex, etc. I also want him to be easy to get along with, and not one of these aggressive rude guys, who are so common around here. I used to be chubby when I was younger but I lost weight in my early 20s because I got into running and swimming.
I am not that superficial but yes it's important for me to be attracted to the guy I'm with. I find the guys here to be extremely superficial and very picky about looks. There are just so many gorgeous women in this area and many of them are smart and ambitious , that guys here are quite frankly very spoiled. On top of that I come from a more traditional southeast European background and I do consider myself to be open-minded to different lifestyles, but I just can't get along with people who are so driven by money and status.
I am also tired of the "the world revolves around NYC" mentality that people have here, because it so arrogant and untrue. So anyway, I am just wondering if the dating scene is any better in San Diego? What are the guys there like? Is there any real difference from NYC men? I would appreciate your feedback.