Not only are they sexy and smart, but they are also often educated, loving, and ambitious towards life. Foreigner men absolutely love, and have had a lot of success with Nigerian wives. So, it should be no surprise that both online and in-person dating for Nigerian women has become quite popular. And, why American men or other foreigners from around the world travel so far to date and court Nigerian women. Taking Religion Seriously and Being Respectful You are going to find that most Nigerian women, may they be from the city or smaller town, are quite religious.
And, while in most cases their religion of preference is Christianity, there are also many that are Muslim — depending on where you are. Ultimately, regardless of your preference, try to keep an open mind — and of course be respectful. Education and Language Skills Believe it or not, nearly any Nigerian woman you meet, mostly in the city but also in plenty of smaller towns or villages will speak some, if not fluent English.
Also, regardless of economic struggles, Nigerian women take education very seriously, and in most cases have at minimum a high school level education. So, education is definitely an area that requires your respect, and something you should take seriously as well — regardless of what your current education aspirations are or what field of interest.
Even just a few phrases can make all the difference, show her that you truly care, and are committed to getting to know both more about her and her culture. A Nigerian woman will likely take care of you better than any other woman has before, but in exchange also expect to likewise be taken care of. This does not so much mean expensive jewelry or name brand clothes, bags, or shoes as much as it does just the basic amenities, keeping a roof over both of your head, etc.
So, ensure you are always as calm as possible when speaking to her, respectful, and do not verbally — and certainly not physically — abuse her. And, know that no matter how big you think the city you live in is, word gets around fast, and people know more than you think. Because of this, the chances of landing nearly any Nigerian woman you want are definitely in your favor, assuming you have chemistry, and that you can make one another happy.
This means, if and when you begin dating or the day comes that you marry your Nigerian girlfriend, just make sure you are sincere, giving her the love, respect, and admiration she deserves. Remember, she is a human being, and may or may not have had bad, or even traumatic experiences in the past — so understanding and patience are a virtue.
So, while this might make you uneasy, just try to accept it, and if not anything understand that its reality — before you begin dating, or seek out a Nigerian girlfriend.
And, it might be a little confusing because while traditional, most if not all Nigerian women were brought up to, and by habit will more than likely cater to you, feed you, love you, and make sure you are always well-fed, happy, and healthy. Learn as much as much as possible about her culture, and do your best to be humble, honest, and leave a good impression. After all, their approval could make or break the relationship you have and any future relationship together.
Mutual Pleasure with a Purpose To keep it brief, Nigerian men more often than not have a reputation of not going above and beyond for their woman or wife in bed. So, when it comes to a sexual relationship and pleasure, make sure you remember that it goes both ways.
So, make it a point to listen to your Nigerian woman, understand her, what makes her happy, and what makes her sad. Communication Loyalty and Eligibility Last but not least, never underestimate the value of communication, and know that loyalty as well as how you present yourself as a bachelor and future husband to your Nigerian girlfriend will mean everything.
After all, she should be your best friend, and as a team, you should do everything in your power to make each other happy and successful in life.