Amazing Questions to Ask a Guy: This is a really good way to gauge how efficient someone is, and what their priorities are. We all procrastinate on some areas of our lives, and most of us feel guilty about it. What is the best way to end a long day? We all have a happy place we like to go into after a long hard day, and that place says a lot about who we are and what makes us happy.
If you inherited a billion dollars, what would you do with your life? Most of us are confined by our lives to a certain extent. Where we live, where we go, what we wear, what we eat… all of these things are governed by how much money we have. But what is money was no option? Our lives would look totally different, and we would be totally different.
This question will show you what he really values in life. Is he a hedonist who would live a life of pleasure? Or an activist who would pursue change? Or something in the middle? If you could choose one movie character to marry, who would it be? This is a great question to know what his dream girl looks like, and see how closely you stack up! What is your favorite quote or expression? What a person remembers and holds onto can tell you a ton about them. Our minds filter through so much information every single day and hold onto a small selection of relevant, important pieces.
No matter what, it will tell you a lot about them. What is always worth the wait? Delayed gratification is a sign of emotional maturity. What is he willing to wait for and work for? Do you believe everything happens for a reason? Does he believe in destiny or think life is a series of random events?
This thought provoking question will reveal a lot about how he processes the things that happen to him, and will also show what his outlook is in general. How would you describe yourself in three words?
Does this question make him a little bashful, or is he more than willing to share? Does he reveal positives, or are his answers self-deprecating? What would you immediately do differently if you knew no one would judge you? We all hold back for fear of judgment which is rampant in this day and age of social media!
This is just a fun, lighthearted question. Some of us just suck at things, and it can be fun to bond over them, and laugh about it! What activities make you feel most like yourself? This is a great question to show who he is… who is his true self and how does he tap into that person? What is your favorite childhood memory? Anything related to childhood is bound to open up from wellsprings of information! Our childhoods essentially shaped who we are, and those memories are with us for the long haul, both good and bad.
Who would you cast to play you in the movie of your life? This is just a fun question that can show you how realistically, or unrealistically, someone views themselves! Does he cast Brad Pitt, or Jonah Hill? If you woke up tomorrow with no fear, what would you do first?
Pretty much all of us are help back by certain fears. Fear of failure, fear of embarrassment, fear of losing money, fear of making the wrong decision. But what would life look like if we let go of all that? What is your strangest pet peeve? We all have pet peeves, some make sense, some are just silly and totally random.
By knowing his, at least you can avoid doing whatever random thing drives him up all wall! If you had to lose one of your five senses, which would you give up? Does he love music? Does he loves taking in beautiful sights? Is he a foodie who loves delicious tastes and smells?
What could he absolutely not live without … and conversely, what would he be willing to give up? If you could make one wish, what would it be? World peace, or a million dollars? Hmm… which will he choose?
What do you consider to be the most difficult period of your life? For most of is, it was middle school and adolescence. For others, it was early adulthood. Either way, this question is bound to tell you a lot about him. We talk a lot on this site about how every man has a mission… has things he wishes he were achieving. When a woman taps into those things, a man feels incredibly bonded to her and he wants to share himself with her.
This questions will show you what means the most to him in life. What is one behavior that makes even the hottest girl instantly unattractive? This will show you how comfortable he is with you so far. Or he might just be a really bold guy with no shame! Do you believe in soulmates? Is he a realist or a romantic? This question is a good way to find out! If you could trade lives with one person for a day, who would it be and why?
This will show you who he admires, and what he hopes his life might look like someday. Who we look up to says a lot about who we are. This question will show you who he wants to be. So who does he want to be? And what makes him feel good to hear about himself? Would you rather be happy or successful?
Another great question to find out what he values in life. A type-A goal oriented type of guy will probably choose success … and this will show you that he will chase success at any cost, even his emotional wellbeing.
A more balanced guy who just likes to enjoy life will probably choose happiness. But most people will probably say both! What always makes you smile? What always makes you angry? They say alcohol, anger, and how someone handles money tells you the truth about who they are. What makes him angry? You can use this question to really dig into the topic and get a sense of how easily his angry switch gets flipped. Mistakes are what shape us and help us grow.
But some are best to never, ever be made again. So what shaped him, and what has he vowed never ever to do again? The answer can reveal a lot. What was the worst part of your childhood? Childhood is a minefield, so proceed with caution.
This question is bound to rouse up some untouched hurts and heavy emotions. Or maybe he had an amazing childhood and really has no complaints.
Either way, you will learn a lot about him. When making decisions, do you follow your head or your heart? The world is divided into thinkers and feelers.
Does spending time with other people make you feel energized or drained? What makes a difference is how you feel when interacting with others. Extroverts feel charged up by being around other people, while introvert feels drained after heavy socializing.