Share Tweet Pin It While the best way to know if someone is a lesbian is to ask, you can also count on your own senses to deduce if a girl is actually into other girls.
If Spiderman has this so called Spidey-sense, gays have Gaydars! But what if you are at a party and there is this woman you are really attracted to.
You think she is into you but you are not sure. What will you do then? Remember that there are no hard and fast rules and certainly no accurate online lesbian tests to determine if a person is Lizzie the Lezzy or not.
The best, simplest and not to mention foolproof way to find out if she is gay or nay or potentially interested is basically to ask her. Why do guys love it when two women make out? Yes, if you think you are brave enough, then ask her straight. Just be sure to have a pretty thick face, lest it be met with a backhand slap. But hey, look at the brighter side.
But of course, it may be easier for you shyer types out there to deduce, instead of outright asking. Do not instantly assume that she is a lesbian. Even if she is, never assume that she is attracted to you. Being a lesbian and being attracted are two different cosmos! We know that people do not usually wear clothes with tags showing their sexual preferences. Although gays in general are known to have a flamboyant and proud fashion sense. Still, some are naturally not this showy.
Rainbow inspired accessories like anklets, bracelets, earrings, rings or even rainbow bumper stickers could be reliable clues that she is a lesbian.
Yet, it is also likely that she is just an advocate of gay rights. Choice of lesbian apparel is also quite similar to straight females. Suits and ties are technically androgynous these days, but suit and tie combos worn the way Ellen DeGeneres or Kate Moennig does are undeniably of a lesbian vibe.
Lesbians, especially bisexuals and femmes, can also dress like hot-jaw-dropping-chicks. Do not be easily deceived! Everyone is entitled to wear a hairstyle of their own choosing, but there are some haircuts that are too lesbo to be mistaken.
One, straight women will probably not wear a faux hawk or a Mohawk. So if you see this cut, instincts will tell you that she is definitely a lesbian. Two, short hair is suspicious, but not at all times gay, so be careful in judging this type. Three, unless she is modeling in a futuristic-themed fashion event, an anime character or unless she is into Cosplay, applying too much hair gel is absolutely not an option for straight girls.
Well, possible exceptions are: Otherwise, she might be gay. Not all sexually attracted to women have any of these hairstyles but more often than not, those who do are Lesbos!
First, is she doing the bad-ass-lez-sitting-position? Does she tend to spread her legs more than necessary while sitting, as if she has a willy between her legs? Second, does she walk like a dude? She is most likely a lesbian, if she walks with slouched shoulders as if trying to hide her bosom, with legs set apart and in a slightly slow half-bouncing pace as if her shoes are all with built-in air pumps.
Third, is she a loyal practitioner of the flirtatious dyke smile? Of course, you know how to do the fatal dyke smile! It is a fusion of sustained eye contact, tilted head and restrained smile. Do not worry you will know it when you see it! Likewise, is she guilty of doing the lingering stare that is longer than usual? If your answers are ardent yesses then one can assume that she is gay. Other noticeable lesbo habits are excessive lip licking in between conversations, touchy hands, sitting slightly too near, frequent nose touching and the list goes on and on.
Some are just plain mannerisms or worse, mere wishful thinking. This one is self-explanatory! It is highly unlikely for you to have sex with a woman with long and sharp finger nails. So unless pain gives you pleasure, look for lesbians whose nails are short and trimmed. If these two are trimmed, chances are she may be gay. Fake nails or nail extensions are a no-no. Some lesbians are plain friendly, but most lesbians are ultimately sociable! They are fun to be with. They are theoretically the life of every party.
They have a network of some sort that grows in number every day. Therefore, if you see her hanging out with a large pool of obvious Lesbos, then she is probably gay as well. But observe how she greets or gazes at lesbos or chickas passing through their table, because that lustful glance just might give her away.
Location is always an unswerving hint. Is she a regular attendee of lesbian organized events or lez hot spots? Does she dream of moving and settling down at P-town in Massachusetts or San Francisco? You spotted a Lezzy! Interests are also suggestive of sexuality. Is she into soccer, football, mixed martial arts? Is she good with automotives or carpentry? Feel free to ask about her YouTube subscriptions. Is she a subscriber of more than two lesbian channels?
Can you connect yourself to her in less than three of your lesbian friends on Facebook? More notably, do her all time favourite movies include Bound , Saving Face and Paris was a Woman ? If she says Callie or Arizona then winner, winner, chicken dinner! Is she using gender-friendly pronouns when talking about someone she likes? Examine how she reacts to gender sensitive issues, or at least monitor her facial reactions and gestures.
Lesbians tend to move a lot while talking. They are expressive and artistic in many different ways including speaking. Does she make use of lesbian slangs and terminologies like chapstick, Doris Day, fish and chips, beat, bean flicker, andro, boi?
Just remember that these are just intuitions, hunches, inklings or clues. It is very possible for someone to break all these things and still be gay. If you are in doubt, follow your instincts.
Go forth and carry on! Spotting a lezzie is supposed to be fun! Liked what you just read?