Love at first sight with a mysterious man with an accent, or that childhood love that never ends. But love is just love.
How it begins, how it ends has little to do with how real it will turn out to be. They will be a real, living person just like you, riddled with imperfections.
They will be on a journey, just like you, growing and learning from their mistakes. There are certain things that can show that you are on the right path. The struggle is getting to that point because it requires us to get out of our comfort zones and really put ourselves out there.
We must set our pride aside, overcome the ego, and submit to love. Let it take us where it may. They are there for a reason, to protect us. The fact that someone would care enough for you to risk their whole heart, and that you would do the same, is a good sign you are with the right person. You can acknowledge where you mess up and use it as an opportunity to grow.
This person understands that neither of you are mind readers and it will take communicating wants and needs to get to your very best. Having someone take accountability for his or her actions can be a surprising yet pleasant change 4. They Know Your Imperfections They know where you lack and love you for it rather than in spite of it. This person would not belittle you or be condescending,. When the ego gets involved it makes us resort to our selfish ways. Someone who can listen to you, process what you are saying, and believe in what you are saying.
You Can Run To This Person You know how your best friend or your mom might be the first person you can vent to or run to for protection? This person becomes an ally. They have shown you they generally care about your well-being so you can easily run to them. You Are Weirdly Impressed By Them Every time you learn something new about them it feels like watching the discovery channel. You never get enough of learning about them, and they feel the same about you. You are both constantly seeking to learn more about each other and the mystery never seems to fade.
As frustrating as they are, you can easily look past them. They Make You Calm. Their presence in your life serves as a reminder there are good things left in this world.
Like, really good things. Whether it is while you are looking at them across a candle lit dinner or breathing in their fresh after shower scent as you scroll through Netflix titles, there is a simple satisfaction in knowing this is YOUR person. They might even be able to distinguish your farts in a crowd. The simplest look from them makes your forget the whole thing.
It is easy to move on from issues with out resentment. Regardless of the little things you could focus on to make you want to give up, you chose love. Meet the students of Five Points High School.
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