To learn how to turn those platonic friendships into something more intimate, check out the following tips on how to start dating a friend. What you want is to get the girl to see you as a sexual being with your own wants and desires. How do you do this? By sprinkling in comments about sex and dating into your conversation. Using sexual innuendo for example, will bring sex into the conversation in a fun, playful way.
You can also ask her about her dating life and openly talk about your own. Increase the sexual tension A key part of learning how to start dating a friend is learning how to increase sexual tension. That means touching the girl more and more during your conversations.
You can start light, by just tapping her elbow and shoulder, and slowly work your way up to resting your hand for longer periods of time on her shoulder, back, leg, etc. Doing this is going to help you for a few reasons: First, it gets the girl more comfortable with physical contact from you.
Secondly, touch releases chemicals in the brain that makes her feel good. Going for the kiss Invite the girl over and watch a movie. At the beginning, just look to cuddle with her. As time goes on start to stroke her hair, lightly rub her thigh, etc. As the tension builds turn towards her and make eye contact. Be direct Guys who want to learn how to start dating a friend often want to know how to ask the girl out without making it seem like a date.
If you want a date, ask for it. And one way to do this is to continue dating other women. Actively dating other women is going to help you in a few ways. Finally, it lets her see that this window may close. It gives her incentive to act soon, before she loses her chance. This might pay-off in the movies, but in real life? She may discover just how much value you added to her life, and start looking for ways to get you back.
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