Signs of being scammed Be wary. Scammers operate in dating. It does not mean that most Russian girls are scammers. Most Russian girls are serious and real, but they have their own life, they have to work, they want to sleep at night, they have friends.
Scammers are very active, they go to one site and write to all men there, then go to another site and write their messages there and so on. Do not fool yourself. Having a photo says nothing about it belonging to the person responding. That is the main problem in combating scammers online. Many are men, and they know what men fall for; they know the nature of a man better than any women knows, and they know how to make a man lose his head.
But now that you have read this, you will see immediately when a scam begins to unfold before you. You are forewarned, and you are now armed with invaluable information.
A scammer tells a lot about honesty — her honesty and that she wants you to be honest. When somebody asks you a question — what are you? You will tell many adjectives and many names, you can say about your optimism, about your faithfulness, about other traits of character. Of course, if you somebody asks you about this you can answer that yes, I am honest, but it is not the adjective that comes often to mind without reason.
If you are standing in the street, and a very nice and interesting girl comes to you and invites you to go with her to a dark alley, will you go????
I think, no, at least, not in all cities. However I doubt this will happen on your first meeting, so why should it happen after one letter? Another reason for sites like yahoo and American singles is that they pay from fraudulent credit cards and they know that soon they will be found out.
Usually they have days before it. They can put a great photos there, their email will be bought by people in several days — and voila potential victims are in their hands and they can prolong period of communication until they actually ask money for months, can you imagine a number of people who will buy their email at these sites for all these days.
But scammers have easy life when they place their ads on the Russian dating site where their emails are sold to men. They just sell the emails of interesting girls. And when a girl is really beautiful and scammers can allow themselves to find great photos then there can be about sales of this email each day.
Can you imagine this great field for work of the scammer. They write standard letters. Very often it is a signature that gives them away, because it is always the same. The scammers write to a large number of men. And so they as a rule have standard letters. Yes, scammers from year to year become more personalized, and they answer some of your questions usually in the first part of each letter or at the end and then insert their standard part.
How can you see it? Their letters are usually not a dialogue. For example, a man writes that he likes diving and describes where he was and how great it was. What will be the normal reaction? Answer in the next letter, that diving is very interesting or not for her , that she wanted to try it also or she is afraid of the water and will always admire your from the shore when you dive and so on. She can ask something about this or about the places you were.
Scammers will usually just write that they like you more and more from your letters and learn about you more and more. Analyze the correspondence and you will see. When I check communication for men to see if a girls they are communicating with is a scammer or not interesting to see these cases: These scammers are good psychologists, and it can depend on the individual they are trying to scam.
You will be told that yes, she can communicate each day with you over the Internet or use the Internet at work , but she has no telephone. They are made at night or at the time when you are at work, then they leave some incomprehensible words on your auto responder and hand the telephone.
Another warning sign is that you will be told about her love for you very quickly in the relationship. You can expect to have an acknowledgement of love already in the second letter. There are cases when real Russian women can do it also they are tired of loneliness and they have nobody to turn their affection on.
Sometimes she will say that her girlfriend has a man in Spain, Italy or Germany, and this friend went to Spain and met her man there. Then she says that she wants the same trip, but to you. What the two of you will do together will be outlined in great detail, including dancing the first evening, and hiking the next day and so on. There is usually a lot of discussion what you will do together, where you will go, how wonderfully you will spend these two months.
She will ask what airport is the closest to you so that she could arrive as much as close to you. What man can refuse such an offer? Of course next she asks for the money to go to Moscow, to apply for a visa and buy tickets to the US or other country. That is usually when I come on the scene. Many men have heard about it, and know it well, so when a woman begins to ask for money to be in the US in two weeks, they come to consult with me about possibilities.
If a girl asks you for money to go to the USA — Do not fool yourself. She is not an innocent and a bit silly girl who does not know the realities of life. She as a rule, he is a thief who is after your money. If you offer to come to her and meet her in her home town, she will refuse point blank, and will insist on her coming to you.
The more difficult to determine if it is a fake or not when she is going to arrive to a man from Europe or to Asia counties. And just one warning in the end. When men have not read about scammers at all, they become easily a victim of scammers. When they read a lot about them, they make another mistake, and soon come to the conclusion that all Russian and Ukrainian women are scammers. Scammers are just very active and they use problems in communicating men wants women to make the first step, women wait for men to begin communicating and high expectation of men when a man is and wants to find a beautiful Russian woman up to 30 yo.
Do not talk about scammers to girls all the time. Imagine, you receive a letter from a girl , where she says to you: Maybe you are all right, but I doubt, you have a face like a killer.
Or will you go away hoping to find a normal girl without paranoia. When they find out that all girls become frightened and left them, they just think that they got proves that everybody here are scammers maniacs J.