May 16, at 6: My ex never even touches his facebook, and when he does it is only to comment on something someone else had posted. Your best bet in knowing if your ex really misses you is to wait a long while and contact them out of the blue, read the signs from there.
Maybe they still do, but are too scared to show it. My sister and her husband dated for seven years and broke up for about 5 months at one time, and when they slowly eased back into things a breakup was never even close to happening again. Some people are just meant to be together.
Mary June 18, at I would like to ask him out for a coffee, but I really would like to have an excuse to want to talk to him. Does anyone have any suggestions? Girls Dont know what they want says: July 30, at If he does not pick up then you have your answer. MY ex girlfriend just does not get that I do not want to be friends I have sorda told her but I am just playing games as well If she ever contacts me again I am sure she will be in for a surprise.
Sue November 10, at 7: We had a rocky relationship, we argued often. In part it was my own insecurities and stress level that was bought upon from school and work simultaneously. I was really unhappy with myself and created an unhealthy relationship. Though, he was also imperfect stubborn, stubborn, and unemotional. Whatever that special something is. I remember that I was able to look into his eyes after 3 years of being together and still be intrigued by him. With him every day felt like new.
When we broke up it was hard on the both of us but we both agreed to seperate. We had argued too many times and had many unhappy nights. Both trying to amend what we had. Weeks later, he stopped. Then, I find out he started dating someone shortly after which was his way of filling the void. I confronted him about it the very same day I found out. What happened to the healing stage? The period of time when people find their true self.
She was there the night I confronted him at his door. I realized how psychotic it made me look. I was furious with rage! He had fallen in love with her yet they broke up less than a year into their relationship.
Irv December 26, at 3: I had split up with my girlfriend a plethora of times in the past, said some hurtful things and would often tell her if she was not happy in our relationship to find someone she could be happy with! She had changed her whole being. The following weekend I tried calling her for a day and she didnt answer her phone.
I was going out of my mind in jealousy and rage. The next day I woke and she answered as if she knew not how desperate I was trying to get hold of her. She was indifferent and we arranged to speak on Skype later. When we spoke later she eluded to the fact that she had slept with someone and this made me sick to my stomach. I went a little crazy, smashed my own shit up including my laptop and fists and proceeded to drink myself into oblivion.
This continued for a few days and I couldnt even go to work. I felt lost, alone, afraid, stupid, embarrassed and a whole heap of other emotions. How could she just not care anymore? Had our 2 years albeit rocky with its fair share of arguments meant nothing to her? How could she just move on? When it was good it was real good and when it was bad, well you know what I mean.
I was going to go to the Caribbean for a week to get away from myself, but no matter where I go, there I am! I just want th pain and disappointment to go away, but I see no end in sight. Irv January 4, at 2: I hope this euphoric enlightenment lasts, because in an instant it has helped me see my situation and my place in the world in the different light!
I only hope that everyone has a friend like mine. Sorry to hear Irv, a similar thing happened to me 5 days before xmas! I had dated this guy for 3 months, all this time he made me feel like a princess!!
I had never been so happy in a long time, honestly he was the greatest guy I ever met so far! We work at the same place, he has a position while i am a casual employee. I went ahead to text him and told him how I was getting suspicious of both their reactions!
A big part of me believed him especially the fact that he had never done anything for me to doubt him! Upon arrival to the beautiful Paris hotel, he went to have a shower and left his phone at the bedside table, ….
The last person he had texted was his best friend, so i checked their msgs, and i got one of the worst shocks of my life!! I am also not good at hiding my emotions! So when he asked I told him what exactly was going on and how i came to discover!! I was so upset and told him nothing he would say was going to convince me! I had mixed feelings, i was glad i found out earlier but I also regretted my role leading to all this mess i. I wished we could talk over it, and start afresh!
I figured he was trying to ignore me and i left him alone, i feared that was the end of us! When he came on shift the next day, its like i was the one in wrong! The other day I was at work and there was only was spot left, he was about to park but noticed it was my car he was about to park next to, he left the spot and went around trying to find another spot and ended up parking a few blocks away just to avoid me! Irv January 7, at I feel your pain and thank you for sharing.
For your situation all I can suggest seeing as you work together with both of them is to be cordial when you see them and keep communication to a minimum. He may in the future consider how he has hurt you and even wonder how his foolish actions have ruined a very potential important relationship. He may want you back, but as hard as it is you have to allow him to miss you, without you chasing him and trying to justify the relationship when he was in the wrong!
Try to focus our attentions on something different and work on yourself perhaps, inside and out. We are only upset that OUR feelings are messed up and confused. WE feel sad that we are alone. Whats wrong with US. We allow another person to have this effect on our sub-conciousness and in effect it has an effect on our conciousness!
As an individual we can decide how we chose to process these emotions in ourselves. Take care of yourself and find your inner strength and what works for you.