Kyle Trouble Kyle is an entrepreneur and nomad who has been living abroad since He blogs at This Is Trouble. Follow him on Facebook. As dating becomes more and more difficult in the West, men are turning to new methods to meet women.
In a nutshell, you pay the big bucks to join these sugar dating sites, where women traditionally are looking for men with a net worth of over a million dollars. There are plenty of other websites that out there, so do your due diligence before you pony up the money to join them. Compare this to something like Tinder Plus, which you can get an entire year of for less than that.
Why pay that price? Because the quality on these websites is out-of-this world. If you have any doubts about that, make a profile and browse for yourself you can do this for free, just not message the girls. The current prices for Seeking Arrangement are: Then take a week off. Finally, during the last week of your membership being active, go hard again. You can potentially get several dozen leads, which you can then try to meet up with over the course of the next month.
As sugar dating gets more and more mainstream and popular, the amount of time for this is going to decrease. Crafting Your Profile Sugar dating sites have very similar profile criteria to traditional dating websites, but with one exception. So the question becomes… how much do you lie? This was backed up by the apartment I had 5 minutes to the beach in Los Angeles , the job and company I worked for, as well as the way I dressed. Because I wanted to screen girls I went out with hard, I added this tidbit in my profile for them to clearly see: My profile basically subconsciously portrays this: Would you ever consider being in an LTR with a girl you found on a site like this?
Most men on these sites are paying women simply for their time, not their vaginas. Messaging Here is where you must keep a key game lesson in mind: Remember that these girls think you are a millionaire.
They expect you to be busy, aggressive, and to not waste time. Some of them needed another message or two to give it out. Confident, straight to the point, and best of all—cuts through all the bullshit. An often-overlooked aspect of game is just filtering through all the white noise.
This messages completely filters girls into the yes or no category. There is no need to spike attraction or do anything too much over text.
Banter for a bit and ask her out. Simply treat it as a normal date and escalate as per usual. You should expect to pay for those drinks. Under no circumstances should you pay her actual money. Sugar dating is really just legal prostitution. If it gets to a point where she is really pressuring you for money, or is giving off strong gold digger vibes—simply walk away.
Conclusion I heard so many stories from girls. There are so many girls on these sites, but not enough men with game to satisfy them. If you give them this, there is no telling the possibilities that they will go to keep you around.