I just have no idea what to do about my boyfriend? Weve been dating almost 9 months now. I've recently graduated and he's still a student. Due to not having a job, his loan barely covering him, and his parents not helping with his money issue, its meant that i've bailed him out a good too many times with money. My boyfriend owes me over 3k. Now I dont want replies saying how thats bad etc etc. I know I shouldnt have loaned so much but he was expected to pay most of it off when his last student loan dropped, but it ended up flopping cause it wasnt as much as he thought it was going to be.
So my main issue is, how can I get that money back? It's preventing me from getting my own place, meaning i'll have to crash on peoples sofas for months. The other issue is that im not really in love with him anymore. He has massive anger issues, is hypocritical, extremely lazy. I feel like he really over-sold himself to me when we were dating.
Whenever I try and talk to him about any of those issues he brushes it off or gets angry. As much as I like him and want to fix everything, I'm worried im wasting my time and just cant handle it anymore. So yeah im unsure what to do. He owes me over 3k and is my place to crash until I get my own place. But I just cant stand him anymore. So you did the right thing. A guy who is suitable for you cannot get into your life if you are filling it up with relationship junk.
You have to make a space in your life for You have to make a space in your life for the right guy. Everyone has a primary way that they like love and romance expressed to them. For some people it is gifts, others physical touch, and still others may prefer words, acts of service or For some people it is gifts, others physical touch, and still others may prefer words, acts of service or quality time.
Until you know her love language, you are only guessing. When young women talk about romance, they are often thinking about the setting, mood, etc. For example, dinner may cost the same whether you have a picnic to watch the sunset or go to a sports bar, but the first is a lot more romantic. So I'm a 16 year old girl and I haven't had sex yet but will probably soon and I want to know a bit about what guys like during sex. So guys, do you prefer the girl's vagina to be shaved?
Or just tidied up? Do you prefer the girl to be in lingerie or naked? Do you prefer being Do you prefer being naked? Also, do you prefer the lights on or off? And how do you like to lead up to sex? Like making out, fingering, dry humping etc.