WhatsApp The first stage of a relationship or courtship when people start dating is definitely the most important time of the relationship or courtship. It is natural to go on a few dates with someone before the courtship could be established. These few dates actually determine how the relationship turns out. If one does something stupid during the date, the chances of its survival could fade away or disappear immediately.
There is nothing anyone can do about what they think on a new dating adventure. However, the goal is to keep any of these thoughts from coming out. Immediately the thoughts turn into actions, things could go horribly wrong. Brag or Lie Never ever brag or lie. If you talk like you are everything in the world, you might risk the chances of having the relationship. When you lie, then you have to keep remembering the lie every time you meet your significant other.
After very many dates, will you still be able to remember all your lies? It is good to avoid lying because when the other person eventually finds out the truth, your relationship or courtship will be in shambles.
Rush Things One of the easiest ways to have a meaningful relationship is to let it grow gradually. Take your time and give yourselves time to want to be in the relationship. Play hard to get You should not be easy, neither should you play very hard to get.
It is advisable to get a middle ground between the two. Pretend Do not pretend to be someone or something that you are not, even if this thing is what the other person really likes. If this thing that you may try to be is the reason of the relationship, then there is no point of having the relationship at all. Focus on money Men tend to be cautious of women who spend a lot of money and expect to be treated like princesses.
This applies to the women too. Avoid dwelling on money once you meet. If you go on a date, always offer to foot the bill or split it. Once one person notices that they tend to spend more money on you, it could raise a problem.
If you cannot afford the expensive outings, find cheaper ones that will enable you to have a good time too. Too much drinking has different consequences. It could lead to violence which can cause problems in the relationship. If your partner does not like the cigarette smell as well, it could lead to a problem. Too much drinking increases the chances of losing your next life partner.
These things could cause the relationship to end in its early stages. Ask invasive questions Know your boundaries. Avoid questions that could sound intimidating or embarrassing. Save some of these questions for after you have known your partner, if they are really necessary. Find a balance to avoid sounding like you are constantly whining about everything. It could sound negative and put off the other person.
Be too intimate Do not overstep the boundaries. A kiss on the first date can be too much. Be civil and avoid things that could send other signals. Create drama Avoid making minor niggles into major issues. If you have a problem about something, talk about it with your partner without causing too much drama especially in public.
Men especially are not mind readers; they do not like making drama out of life. It is advisable to talk about issues in a good way with no quarreling or shouting. Set crazy rules We all know and seldom set rules about a relationship. If you have a rule you follow before you get into a courtship, you do not have to let the other person know.
It could make them lose interest or think that you are crazy. Get clingy or insecure Most people can tolerate clingy people in the later stages of relationships. However, if these clingy signs start to show early, one can decide to run away. Constantly calling or texting in a day can become excessive and annoying.
Then people tend to stalk your pictures to find out details about the other person. Facebook is a social tool; it should not replace the old fashioned way of getting to know each other. Get Intimate too soon You need to build the relationship by becoming friends first then building the trust for each other. A relationship will change after making love together. Build a good foundation first for the relationship before you become intimate.
Follow them on twitter While it could look like a good idea to follow the person you have started dating on twitter, it could look rushed.
People do not tweet from the heart, and it could be easily misinterpreted. Go to dates late constantly Punctuality is a very important aspect in any courtship. If you arrive late, apologies to the other person. Invade too much privacy Nobody likes to feel like they are being investigated. Not appreciate your partner It is good to always appreciate your partner with acts of kindness every time they do something nice for you. When one is not appreciated, they will not do small special things for you again.
Being too busy sends the message that you are not interested. It may seem like a lot of work, but once the relationship is set and moving, nothing will make you happier.